The Conscious Dating Program

Step into your power and Manifest the type of legendary love you deserve

  • 14 weeks, 80 minute sessions, 1:1 virtual coaching
  • Customized weekly action steps to meet your goals related to magnetizing love
  • Meditations, activities and/or homework that correspond to each module
  • Mid-week check-ins


Let's be honest, dating in today’s world is harder than it used to be. Ever-changing societal expectations, past dating scars, insecurities, ticking biological clocks, and endless app scrolling only to meet someone who looks nothing like their picture... are just a few of the issues women face when looking for a partner.

That’s where we come in. We support you as you undergo a process where you will feel more self love, more confident, more clear on the partnership you want to magnetize, and more worthy and deserving of the love you desire.

The Conscious Dating Program is a 14 week, 1:1 virtual coaching program designed to heal your dating wounds, build your confidence, and magnetize soulmate love.

Are you tired of wasting time on partners who aren’t a good fit?

Do you fear you’ll never find the type of partner you truly desire?

Do your insecurities get in the way of enjoying the dating process?

Is it hard for you to be emotionally and/or sexually vulnerable with your partner?

Are you newly single and ready for your next relationship to be an upgrade from the last?

Schedule a free 30 minute consultation

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Magnetize Soulmate Love Into Your Life.

Are you ready to embody your power and manifest the partnership of your dreams?

We will collaborate with you to...

Increase self love & pleasure identify & transform resistance heal dating wounds
Update conditioning
Date from confidence and power
Manifest the love you want
Gain clarity on the type of partnership you deserve stay receptive and positive while dating
Enjoy the journey no matter the outcome
Develop a personal dating code
Learn specific dating techniques
Become magnetically irresistible!

By walking you through a series of specialized practices intended to update your whole operating system we clear the way for the type of high level love that you desire and deserve.

The Conscious Dating Experience:

step 1:

We attract the energy that we embody. Therefore we will begin our work together by focusing on dating from a place of self love and pleasure, using customized pleasure and sensuality practices to set you up to date from your power, not your insecurities.

step 2:

Even if you think you know what you want and how to get it, you may be unconsciously behaving in ways that are counter to what you say you want. Therefore in this next step we will transform wounding patterns, beliefs systems and conditioning that cause you to habitually attract the wrong person and prevent you from finding love in the present moment.

step 3:

You can’t create something if you don’t know what it is you want. Therefore this step is all about getting clarity on what you want from the partnership you desire and using sex magic and manifestation to pave the way for the partnership you crave.

step 4:

It has been said that the devil is in the details. Therefore we would be remiss if we did not address the fine details of dating such as: how to text and deal with apps; how to flirt, seduce and play; how to spot red flags; and how to stay grounded within yourself throughout the entire dating process.

Session 1: Dating from Self Love
  • Create a list of affirmations that honor your commitment to celebrate and love oneself

Session 2: Dating from Pleasure Part 1: Jade Egg
  • Increase your magnetic radiance by learning how to date from empowerment, self care and a deep connection to your own sensuality and intuition using a jade egg self pleasure practice

Session 3: Dating from Pleasure Part 2: Breathwork and Orgasmic Nature
  • Reprogram your sexuality and reset it at the level that you desire to attract and magnetize your soulmate using a breathwork self pleasure practice

Module 1: Dating from Self Love & Pleasure

Session 4: Being Seen, Connecting and Committing Part 1
  • Explore how available you are to: see and be seen; connect and be connected to; and commit and be committed to by potential partners.

Session 5: Being Seen, Connecting and Committing Part 2
  • Identify and undo the fear that is keeping you from seeing or being seen, connecting or being connected to and committing or being committed to by potential partners.

Session 6: Supporting your Inner Child for Openness to Soulmate Love
  • Examine, communicate to and heal any inner child issues that block you from embracing soulmate love

Session 7: Supporting your Heart for Openness to Soulmate Love
  • Examine, communicate to and heal any heart wounding issues that block you from embracing soulmate love

Module 2: Clearing the Way for Soulmate Love

Session 10: Creating the List and Manifesting Soulmate Love
  • Creating a list of core requirements needed from your potential partner

Session 11: Living from Desire and Dating Yourself
  • Becoming your own best lover and staying in a high vibration state throughout the dating process

Module 3: Creating Magnetic Love

Session 12: Dating as a Queen
  • Identifying and working with your ‘power aspect’ as well as the part of you that is either challenging you or creating a struggle in dating

Session 13: Heart Centered and Soul Centered Dating
  • Staying centered and attuned to your heart and soul when faced with challenges in dating

Session 14: Wrap up and Integration
  • Using the tools learned to create an action plan for success moving forward

Module 4: Sexual and Material Power

Session 8: Integrating Blockages in the Dating Process
  • Identify, integrate and heal any patterns, blockages or issues that continually arise in your relationships and/or dating process

Session 9: Ending Unhealthy Dating Patterns
  • Using breathwork to identify and end repetitive poor or unhelpful choices that keep you from getting what you want in a relationship

6 equal payments of $802 every 4 weeks


3 equal payments
$1554 every 4 weeks


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$2256 every 7 weeks


save $250


14-80 min sessions $333/session for $4662.

The Investment with Kayle Koepke

so i quit dating.

I specialize in helping women find love after a long term relationship has ended. Reentry into the world of dating at this stage of life has its own set of challenges: fears that no high quality men are left; doubts about my ability to have a healthy relationship after the last one “failed”; ignorance about the rules of engagement after being off the market for so long... With those doubts in my heart, I set out on a dating adventure that led me down a twisty road of heartbreak, transcendence and everything in between and yet I couldn't find the level of deep intimacy and connection I desired...

Hi, I'm Kayle

And dated myself instead. My date nights were filled with self love, pleasure & manifesting my ideal match mixed with meditations designed to release past wounding & conditioning. In the end, I re-emerged feeling more confident, receptive, clear and capable of having the type of deeply connected, soulmate love we all deserve.

My desire is for every woman to first fall in love with their own beauty and power and then manifest a partner who matches that love. If this stirs something within you, schedule a consultation below to see if the Conscious Dating program is a good fit for you.

We are here to support you every step of the way to finding the love that you desire and deserve!

6 equal payments of $484 every 4 weeks


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2 equal payments
$1350 every 7 weeks


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14-80 min sessions $200/session for $2800.

Conscious Dating - led by Gwyn Wheeler

I specialize in helping women in their 20’s, particularly women who identify as queer, find love. As a queer woman myself, I’ve struggled to stay open, positive and empowered in my own dating journey. Using the methods I now teach has allowed me to break free from these habitual patterns and establish a foundation of self love and confidence that has made all the difference in the quality of partners I now attract. I look forward to helping you find the same freedom, confidence and power in dating!

Hi, I'm Gwyn

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