Elevate your sexual experiences and enhance your life with The Sacred Sexuality Starter Kit
You know that one thing your partner does…
That you would LOVE if they did a tiny bit differently…?
Or that fantasy you’ve had for years that you’d really love to act out with your current lover?
Well, how exactly do you ask for these things without making them feel like they’ve been missing the mark the entire time??
Trust me, it’s a science, an exact one…
When you come from a place of positivity and support (and use the right language – super important!), asking for what you want can be the ultimate way to bring you even closer and make sure you’re BOTH having an epic experience in the bedroom.
Below is my 5-step process for telling your partner what you want in a way that keeps them receptive, engaged, and eager to please.
For example, “I feel so safe and comfortable with you when we have sex that I would love if we could try this new thing with you that I’ve never tried before”. OR, “I love when you go down on me, and I think if you could try this new thing with your tongue I would love it even more than I already do”.
When you start with a positive tone it keeps you from coming off as critical, which helps your partner to remain receptive and motivated to work on your request.
For example, “When you stroke my vulva with a light touch, it gets me really turned on and more excited for penetrative sex” or “when you turn me on energetically before you go in physically, my whole body is able to feel more pleasure during sex”.
“But Kayle, what if I don’t know what I want in the bedroom?” (make this a break out quote so it stands out?)
This is one of the most commonly asked questions I receive as a sex coach. Most people, especially women, have been conditioned to suppress their sexual desires, limiting the freedom they feel to explore what feels pleasurable in their bodies.
That’s why I’ve created the free Sacred Sexuality Starter Kit so that you can experience for yourself the profound levels of pleasure, power, and liberation that come from practicing sacred sexuality.
Go to the free Sacred Sexuality Starter Kit page on this site to receive yours today!
Allow me to guide you through short and simple daily exercises in breath, energy, sound, mindfulness, and movement to enhance your pleasure, confidence, and connection.
Claim your kit